Today’s tip is about being the person that initiates things that you want to do in your life.
If you want to catch up with a friend, don’t wait for that friend to ring you. Friendship, like every relationship is a two way street and both parties need to invest. Please don’t be the one that always waits for someone else to call, and then wonder why your life is boring. You have the capacity to get on the phone and make that call to a friend.
Do you want to go and see a play for example? Look up the details, find out when it’s on. Organise the tickets and be proactive in creating experiences that you want to have in your life. When I talk about creating a life that you love, this is what it means. It means you taking steps to bring more of what you want into your day. Don’t be the receiver – be the the creator of what you want to experience. It’s totally fine to go after what you want.
If you want to get healthy want to join a gym, get on the phone and make some calls. Do the research. Be the driver of your own life and you will find that your relationships both with your partner, your friends and yourself will be richer for it.
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