Today I want to talk about control and in particular, the need so many of us have to be in control. We want to control our children, we want to control our environment, and everything has to be just so. We have to be neat, we have to be tidy, we have to have everything the way that we want it.
What I want to share with you is, the more you want to control or seek to control your external environment, is generally an indication of how out of control you feel on the inside.
If you’re feeling like your emotions are all over the place and that you don’t know where you are in terms of your happiness, your self contentment, your self acceptance, the status of your relationship, or that there’s turmoil in your life, if that’s that’s true for you, it will often show up in trying to control your external environment.
I’m really sharing for those of you who are the sort of perfectionist and the control freaks. Look for the warning sign in that! Take that behaviour as an indication that more than likely all is not well in your inner world and that it’s time to do something about it! You don’t want to keep feeling out of control on the inside, and there’s no need to continue to feel that way.
If that’s you, please feel free to book a call with me. We can talk about that. Book your I’m out of control consultation. This behaviour really is an indication that all is not well.
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