Cathy Fyffe

Hello, Cathy Fyffe from create a life to live here, back with relationship Hot Tip number four.

Today I want to talk about control. And in particular, the need. So many of us have to be in control, we want to control our children, we want to control our environment, you know, everything has to be just so we have to be neat, we have to be tidy, we have to have everything, the way that we need it. And what I want to share with you is, the more we want to control or we seek to control our external environment, generally, that’s an indication of how out of control we feel on the inside.

So if you’re feeling like, your emotions are all over the place that you don’t know, you know, where you are, in terms of your happiness, your self content, your self acceptance, the status of your relationship, like where’s the turmoil in your life? If that’s something that’s, that’s true for you, it will often show in that external environment. So I’m really sharing that, for those of you who are the sort of perfectionist and the control freaks, look for the warning sign in that. Take that as an indication what that more than likely all is not well in your inner world. And that it’s time to do something about that. You don’t want to keep feeling out of control on the inside, and there’s no need to continue to feel that way.

So if that’s you, please feel free to book a call with me. We can talk about that. No, we’ll call it the I’m out of control. consultation. So it really is an indication at all is not well.

I hope that helps. I look forward to speaking with you soon. Bye for now.

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